The ultimate test of a moral society is the kind of world that it leaves to its children. Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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If your baby could tell you what she would really like from you, she would tell you that she would like three wishes:
from Dance With Me In the Heart by Pennie Brownlee
Blessings to you this New Year. May 2016 be the year parents, teachers and those in the childcare industry unite to improve the lot for our babies and little ones.
Nurture, nurture, nurture.
Every single one of our babies needs one thing above all else - nurture. Because each of us does the best that we know how, we might think we are already nurturing our babies and little ones. But if that were true, there wouldn't be the violence in families and society that we see. As Robin Grille says, "We know from neuroscience and epigenetics that no human being was born destined to lead a life of violence. Chronic violence is the result of severe brain changes."
So what changes the brain?
Lack of warm, empathetic nurture by a known and trusted adult - and stress. You know yourself, being separated from loved ones is stressful in and of itself, and if you are too little to manage your fear and feelings of loss - that's stressful. Add to that the crush of too many babies/children in a group and every day becomes ultra-stressful. Ultra-stressful is unfortunately the norm in childcare. Teachers and children suffer, yet it is our children who pay the price in their critical years of brain-building.
Teachers are feeling it too!
In my travels during the year I have met too many good teachers who are seeking to leave the industry. Why? Too many children stuffed into too small a space, too stretched as owners keep the ratio at the bare minimum, too much paper work, little or no support in professional development and/or having to access it out of their own funds.... When our good teachers leave we are really in trouble because they are the only ones who can lift the quality in a centre for our children and their families.
Privatisation - the good, the bad, and the just plain ugly
While privatisation has given us a handful of exemplary centres throughout the country, it has delivered us truck loads of mediocre centres, and yet more truck loads of centres which would be better closed until-and-if owners and managers upped their game to meet the basic biological needs of babies and toddlers. Too many children's childhoods are literally being stolen, some out of genuine ignorance on the part of the adults, and others by good-old-garden-variety-greed on the part of the owners. We have to do better by our children than this.
So here's to 2016 and our united efforts to make it better for babies and toddlers in care, and for the teachers who care for them. Here's to nurture over profit.
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